Posts Tagged ‘heart’

We’ve got it Good!

Wednesday, April 1st, 2009

There I was reading by candle light, no electricity running, reading an Abraham Lincoln book, wondering how he did it, along with experiencing how much my eye sight was starting to blur.

It was right smack dab in the middle of Earth Hour, an hour period where everyone around the world was encouraged to turn off all their lights and electronics all at the same time, that I started thinking about how good we’ve got it today.

I can’t believe I am going to write this, because it is going to sound like something my grandfather would have said. “In my short life a lot has changed.”

“Today the world changes so quickly that in growing up we take leave not just of youth, but of the world we were young in.” Peter Medawar

Simple things we take for granted, like phones, are totally different. When I was a kid we had dial phones. You know, the ones you would stick a finger in a hole to dial each number. Your fingers would get sore if you had to make too many calls. Sparks might even fly from the phone if you dialed too hard.

Today we have phones that can track us, can instantly send message anywhere in the world, and on top of that, we can use our phone to watch our favorite football game. Pretty good if you ask me.

Maybe we just take technology for granted too much these days. We don’t realize how good we’ve really got it.

“The trouble with our times is that the future is not what it used to be.” Paul Valery

Take for instance the miracle of modern flight. We complain about having to wait 20 minutes to get on a flight, spending time on the runway waiting for clearance to take-off, and the discomfort of having to sit in a chair for a few hours to get from New York to Los Angeles.

Perhaps we have forgotten that it would take a full year only a hundred years ago to travel from New York to Los Angeles, and along the way many of the people you would be traveling with would die, babies would be born, and danger was around every turn.

Today everything is pretty much amazing if you really think about it.

The idea of a motor boat is amazing. I can walk down to my boat dock, uncover the boat, turn the key, and all of the sudden I am driving on water. I can go backwards, forwards, and spin around if I choose. I can even take people along with me and spend the night on my boat, go to the bathroom, take a shower, and cook a meal. Amazing!

The ability to take hot showers, cook a meal in a minute, turn on a light with a flip of switch, and the power to watch television . . . it’s all pretty amazing.

“We can only be said to be alive in those moments when our hearts are conscious of our treasures.” Thornton Wilder

I take all of these things for granted when I don’t think about how good we have it. We may even believe that the world owes us these things, because so many of us have easy access to these quality of life services.

Sitting and reading by candle light, with no electronics running, can awaken you to the amazement of how good we have it today too.

Give it a try. Turn off your lights and electronics for an hour. See how good you have it.

“The danger of the past was that men became slaves.  The danger of the future is that man may become robots.” Erich Fromm

Let me know what you think.

Until next week, remember the only boxes that exist are the ones you create yourself.


Have You Hugged Your Barn Today?

Tuesday, July 29th, 2008

As humans we have more in common with each other than some people might realize. We all need to get at least 5 to 6 hours of sleep each and every night. We all need to eat food and drink water if we are to survive for very long. Every one of us has something that we are passionate about, being passionate is something that we all are born with.

One of my greatest passions is an old barn. I love them, hug them, collect them, dismantle them, and I creatively adapt the barn wood for new purposes. Right now I am taking old wood flooring from a barn that had a previous life on Patricia Island and I am now transforming the rare material into a bar top in my downtown Tulsa loft. Looking at the old and visualizing how I can transform it into something new is one of the ways that I explore and use my creativity.

What are you passionate about? What do you hug?

“Passion, though a bad regulator, is a powerful spring.” Ralph Waldo Emerson

My passion for barns was not something that I was aware of until I moved to Grand Lake. I discovered this passion quite by accident. One day when I was driving through the back roads of Grand Lake I passed a barn that I had admired for some time. It had a lot of character and I often wondered what stories it could have told of times past. That is why I was horrified to see that it was on fire. My heart raced as I drove straight to the barn and started pulling its smoldering wood out of the flames. I wondered why this wonderful barn wood was being so carelessly and permanently destroyed.

It was at that moment that I discovered a new passion within myself, a passion for barns and barn wood. I became a barn hugger. The important thing to remember is that things you are passionate about give you clues to better understanding and living your purpose in life. This was the first of many barns that I began saving and salvaging before they could be burned to the ground. They became one of the cornerstones of my purpose, which is making a positive difference and showcasing what is possible.

“A hug delights and warms and charms; that must be why God gave us arms.”
Author Unknown

We all have something we are passionate about enough to hug. What is it for you?

Dismantling and salvaging old barns is hard work, I mean really hard work. The first barn I dismantled was in Jay and I had no clue what to do or where to start, muscling the barn siding off with a crowbar was time consuming. Bugs, snakes, wasps, and heat made the work more challenging to say the least. I did not know what I did not know. I was fortunate to be able to enroll others into my vision and with their help figure out how to accomplish my goal of salvaging barns.

No one said that what you are passionate about will be easy or that it will not take effort to achieve. I could have chosen to throw in the towel and let my passion for barns go away. I could have let the hard work win. I could have given up and let my passion burn like the barn I found on the side of the road. Instead I persevered, because I felt passionately about my desire to salvage old barns and I could see how this was tied to my purpose. I now have over seven barns worth of wood saved from the flames of destruction, dismantled, stacked, and ready at anytime for a new life.

“Without passion man is a mere latent force and possibility, like the flint which awaits the shock of the iron before it can give forth its spark.” Amiel

Many of us identify and feel our passions, it is only natural, and then we do nothing with them. We do not take the next step which is to follow the passion and let it take us on a journey to a new place, a place where we can discover something new about ourselves and move closer to reaching our full potential. Many of us stop when we experience the passion and we run from the feeling. Your passions are what it is all about. Take them by horns and run with them. Nothing could be more important than to live your passions. You can do it!

In my life I have many passions and I work to fulfill and feed each and every one of them. Some are more challenging to fulfill than others and some are yet to be discovered. One thing is for sure. Being passionate about following your passions is one of the most important ways to make the most out of your life.

“Don’t ask yourself what the world needs; ask yourself what makes you come alive. And then go and do that. Because what the world needs are people who have come alive.”
Harold Whitman

Have you hugged your barn today?

Let me know what you think.

Until next week, remember the only boxes that exist are the ones you create yourself.