It seems like we spend a lot of our time shopping for Christmas gifts and preparing them for presentation to that special someone. There is less time actually spent with the people we have bought gifts for, and even less when those gifts are sent to someone far away and unwrapped when you are not even present.
“The only gift is a portion of thyself.” Ralph Waldo Emerson
What if there was a gift so special that you would not be able to find it in a mall, or in a boutique, and not even on the Internet? You would not have to shop away your hard earned money and time on things you or your gift recipients will not be using in six months anyway.
Inside of each one of us are tremendous gifts of talent and skill. The challenge is to consciously discover your special gifts and learn how to expand their capabilities and strength. I have found many of my gifts through interacting with people. When people continually and naturally act positively to the way I present, facilitate, or create, then I know that I am on the right track to more fully understanding my gifts.
I have also come to learn more about my gifts during down time. The time I take to visualize my ideas, rest on a couch, or walk in nature all give me time to see how to better grow and focus my energy on any particular gift I have. The challenge is that the more work I do the less time I have to go through these gift-building exercises. Even a few minutes here and there can make all the difference in the world.
“But it is a cold, lifeless business when you go to the shops to buy something, which does not represent your life and talent, but a goldsmith’s.” Ralph Waldo Emerson
When do people positively acknowledge you for your actions? What were you doing at the time? Could it be a gift waiting to be discovered?
Giving the gift of yourself and your time is quite possible the greatest gift one can ever give. The rewards on both sides are tremendous, going way beyond anything that could be bought. This does not mean that we don’t have to go out and purchase gifts, because in some cases we do, it’s all part of playing the game of life.
“A hug is a great gift – one size fits all, and it’s easy to exchange.” Author Unknown
Maybe this Christmas think a little different about the traditional gift giving we have come to know during the holidays. Instead, give the gift of yourself and your many talents to your family and friends. Just think of all the extra time you will have to spend with the ones you love and share your life with. Think of all the headaches and depression you will avoid. Think about all the money you will save this holiday season, maybe for a rainy day. And while you’re relaxing with friends knowing you are giving the ultimate gift, you can only hope that, one day, the rest of the world shopping their time away will wake up and catch the “giving of your gifts wave.”
Give it a try and see what happens for you and the person gifted.
“You give but little when you give of your possessions. It is when you give of yourself that you truly give.” Kahlil Gibran, The Prophet
Let me know what you think?
Until next week, remember the only boxes that exist are the ones you create for yourself.
