Archive for October, 2008

Realizing Your Dreams

Sunday, October 26th, 2008

Each and every moment in your life is extremely precious. Each moment represents unlimited potential for creating the life you have always dreamed of, the life you were meant to be living, the life that fulfills your purpose on this planet.

If you are one of the few people that has figured this out, congratulations. If you are among the many who continue to think that there is something more to life than just going through the motions, then now is the time to start working towards living your life’s purpose. What are you waiting for?

What is your dream? What is it that you most desire but don’t currently have in you life? What is it that you are meant to be doing with your life?

“Nothing happens unless first a dream.” Carl Sandberg

None of these are easy questions to answer, but once you ask them you will begin the process of opening the doors of perception and begin to naturally move towards reaching your full potential.

I know that for some of us it is just too hard to even start the process of thinking about how to achieve what it is that we dream of for our lives. It is just easier not to think about it. Finding the answers to these questions might mean that we have to change what we are currently doing, change who we live with , change our careers or even move to another location. These are just a few of the reasons why so many people settle and never take the powerful steps needed to reach for something more in their lives in order to discover what the purpose of their life really is.

“To change one’s life: Start immediately. Do it flamboyantly. No exceptions.” William James

Even if we want to change we can get stuck in a rut. Like a broken record we continue to do what we have always done because it’s more comfortable, like our favorite pair of old worn jeans. At some point you have to make the change and throw those jeans away or find a new use for them. You need to change elements of your life every once in a while otherwise you will start to get tired, worn out, and bored. This leads to complacency and a mental plaque that prevents you from seeing the opportunities around you. You are unique, you are special, you have a purpose in life and it is important to you and the world that you pursue your purpose in life and live it.

What are you waiting for?

You can start by writing down everything you have dreamed about what your life could be. Write down all that comes to you as fast as you can. Don’t think about how whacked out your dreams may be. Don’t stop and think, “This is just too much for anyone to think is real.” Don’t worry at all about what it is you are writing down. Just do it! You can do it!

“We grow great by dreams. All big men are dreamers. They see things in the soft haze of a spring day or in the red fire of a long winter’s evening. Some of us let these great dreams die, but others nourish and protect them; they nurse them thought bad day until they bring them to the sunshine and the light that always comes to those who sincerely hope that there dreams will come true.”Woodrow Wilson

After you have written down your dreams, even if just one, post them on the mirror in your bathroom. Look at them each morning. Think about what it would be like if your dreams became real. How would you feel?

The next step is to write down what you need to do to make your dreams real. Start taking these steps. It may take weeks. It may take months. It may take years. It may take a lifetime. It doesn’t matter because you are living your dreams and nothing could be more important.

“Allow yourself to dream and fantasize about your ideal life; what it would look like, and what it would feel like. Then do something everyday to make it a reality.” Brian Tracy

What are you waiting for?

In my life I work everyday to live my dreams and my life’s purpose. The more I work at this the easier it becomes. Really. I will say this. Your life will never be the same once you embark on this process because you will enter into the great unknown and the world will open up for you. You will start meeting people who are aligned with your dreams and will want to help you. You will start to experience new challenges that will stretch you, enabling you to grow. You will start going with the flow of life. You will start living your purpose. What could be more important?

If you desire to live your life with greater meaning and purpose there is no time like the present to start. You can do it!

“If one advances confidently in the direction of his own dreams and endeavors to live the life that he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours.” Henry David Thoreau

What are you waiting for?

Let me know what you think.

Until next week, remember the only boxes that exist are the ones you create yourself.

Think!

Sunday, October 12th, 2008

How often do you think about what a phenomenal gift your mind is? Just how phenomenal is it? Your mind thinks and moves energy at the speed of light. Not impressed? Think about it just for a second. Your mind moves energy and ideas at the speed of light. Still not impressed? Let’s put it in perspective. In one second, moving at the speed of light you can travel around the world seven and a half times. Now that’s impressive! What’s even more impressive is that your mind thinks and moves energy at that same speed.

Like computers we only use about 10% of the capacity of our brain. Some of us might push the envelope and use 15% but that is about it. Think of the unlimited potential we are letting sit idle. It is time to stop the brain drain and start using more of our minds abilities. Each of us has over 1,000,000,000,000 (one trillion) brain cells and a virtual Niagara Falls of bio-chemical information flowing through it.

Yet what do we fill our minds with? In so many cases we fill it with junk. We worry about things that never happen. We over think everything, one of my personal favorites. We think about what we are going to eat. We think about issues of money. We think about trivial facts that don’t do much for us at all. We think about the tasks we have ahead of us or worse all the things we needed to do but did not get done, which leads us to start stressing out. The list of things we pre-occupy our minds with goes on and on and on and on . . .

“Too often we… enjoy the comfort of opinion without the discomfort of thought.” John F. Kennedy

In so many cases we don’t even know we are doing this because it is such a natural part of our daily, weekly, monthly and yearly thinking activities. When you take the time to slow down, calm the mind, and relax, this is when you can begin to take a look at what your mind is doing. Only then can you start to understand how much of your brain power is being used up by things that really don’t matter and in many cases are a detriment to your mental and physical health.

Like so many things written about and discussed in What Box? this is not easy stuff. If it were easy everyone would be using more of their minds potential. I have been working on improving my ability to use more of brain consciously for over 15 years now and I am still a long ways away from getting to where I know I can. The key is to keep on keeping on. Persevere no matter how difficult and you will find yourself becoming more aware of what you are thinking about, what you put into your mind and how you use your mind.

“You and I are not what we eat; we are what we think.” Walter Anderson

When you program your mind with junk you create junk in your life. If you think you can, you can, if you think you can’t, you can’t. It is a universal law. This is a small example of how powerful your mind is.

Now you may say, “All right Sean, I am interested in taking a look at what is on my mind. How do I do this?”

One of the first and most important ways is to find a place of silence. I have found nature to be the greatest place to quiet the mind. It is a place to find the inner peace that will allow you see what your mind is doing. Breath slowly, become conscious of what you are thinking about. Let your thoughts flow without judgment. After a while begin to think about what you are thinking about. How does it make you feel? Are they positive thoughts? Are they negative thoughts? Are they thoughts that have nothing do with anything and are a total waste of your brain power? Or are they productive thoughts? Thoughts about how to create positive change in your life? Are they thoughts about supporting a better life for yourself and others? Are they thoughts about looking at yourself and how to improve who you are?

“Begin challenging your own assumptions.  Your assumptions are your windows on the world.  Scrub them off every once in awhile, or the light won’t come in.” Alan Alda

The goal is to focus your mind on the productive and positive thoughts. These kinds of thoughts will produce the productive and positive results you desire in your life. It may not happen in a week, it may not happen in a year. It will happen. Behind every overnight success is 20 years of hard work, persistence and positive, productive thinking.

One thing is for sure. The more you practice seeing what is on your mind and using your minds pathways for productive and positive thought the more efficient your thinking will become and the more positivity will be created in your life. Give it a try. It is never too late to start becoming more aware of yourself. When you do, a whole new world will open to you, a world of unlimited potential and wonder.

Go for it! What are you waiting for?

Let me know what you think.

Until next week, remember the only boxes that exist are the ones you create.

Believing in Possibility

Tuesday, October 7th, 2008

It is only when we start to think and believe that our thoughts and dreams are not impossible, that they can become real.


Few really believe.  The most only believe that they believe or even make believe.”  John Lancaster Spalding

What you think about and imagine the most will be what you create in your life. When you think about and imagine what seems to be and impossible idea on a regular basis, you will have embarked on “the impossible dreaming journey,” and you will be one step closer to making the impossible, possible.

“Some things have to be believed to be seen.” Ralph Hodgson

Thomas A. Edison, Michelangelo, and Abraham Lincoln marched to their own beat and believing in the possibility of the impossible. They showcased for us the power of change we have hidden deep inside ourselves. They demonstrated what is possible.

Confidence is a very key part in developing your creativity. If you have confidence in your creativity you will indeed become more creative.

Having confidence in yourself is being open and willing to go further in exploring other possibilities. Arrogance is being closed and defensiveness when other ideas are presented. Very creative people are rarely arrogant.

“Whether you think you can or think you can’t – you are right.” Henry Ford

The process of exploring the impossible as possible allows new What Box? ideas to rise to the surface. The challenge is to let the ideas flow and not block them with limited boxed thinking. Focus on making it possible and see what happens in your life.

Let me know what you think.


Until next week, remember the only boxes that exist are the ones you create yourself.